You are here because you are most likely in the same situation I use to be in most of my life. Your situation begins with women and your ability to attract and meet them. If you’re like I use to be, then not being able to attract women is becoming a huge problem in your life.
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The confidence issue has other issues attached to it… Women have always found men that are attractive to other women more attractive to them. So, confidence has a compounded effect. Majority of woman just want the best man they can find. Usually the man all other women are attracted to. So, the more women that find you attractive, the more women will want to be with you just because other women want you. For most guys, the inability to attract women turns their confidence into a tumbling avalanche. Women agree that confidence is the major trait they are attracted to in men. So your inability to attract women could be costing you your confidence and this in turn is making you appear less attractive in the eyes of women.
Men in an “abundance state of mind” mentality always have a number of women attracted to them at the same time. More options means more confidence and a non-desperate/non-clingy disposition. Men that are not desperate or clingy are more attractive to women simply because they are more challenging to have. A man then asks himself: “Why should I hook up with this girl instead of this other girl that also likes me?” This way of thinking will make women crazy for you! Everyone loves the things they can’t have!
A “scarcity state of mind” happens to men that have few or no women attracted to them. A “scarcity state of mind” makes men desperate and willing to do anything to make a woman happy. And a desperate man is a lonely man. Confident women have no us for them. A man that is desperate is nothing more than a pushover in the eyes of women, and more importantly, he offers no challenge! She can just have her way with him.
This is why the song “Some Guys Have All The Luck”, by The Persuaders in 1973, was written. It’s the law of attraction spelt out for us in a song. Women can’t help but find a man with plenty of female options more attractive than his lonely counterparts. That’s why, according to the song, some guys have all the luck and some guys have all the pain.
But the thing is, all men can attract beautiful women. I know because women use to find me unattractive. It’s been a personal mission of mine ever since I was a teen. I’ve been a loser with women most of my life. When I was young I wanted nothing more than to find a beautiful woman I could make happy. Quite simply, I was Mr. Nice Guy. Trust me when I say from experience that women are not into nice guys. In high school it was always the cool guys and the bad asses that got all the beautiful women.
This caused me to go through an angry phase in my life because I was NOT getting what I wanted out of life or out of my relationships with women. I was always the guy getting the girls I really didn’t want, and it wasn’t many girls at that. I didn’t even kiss a girl until I was 17!
My life dealing with women didn’t change until I started getting into online dating. It was around 2005. At first I was a dud. I couldn’t get women interested in my profile no matter what I did. I couldn’t even get a response, not even from voluptuous women! One night I decided to sit down and really put some time and serious thought into my profile. When I finished, I had no idea that I had just created a one page masterpiece that was about to change my life with women forever.
I started getting a ton of replies. I literally had to start a spreadsheet to keep track of girl’s names, date times and phone numbers. Since I started going on so many dates I started getting really comfortable with women. All this dating was getting me very comfortable and more “lucky” with woman much more easily.
But my situation with woman didn’t really change until a few years later. Before I saw the light, my relationships where always with women I wasn’t really attracted to. Finally, when I was 36, I came to the conclusion that there had to be a logical explanation of why some guys were getting so “lucky” with women.
I just moved into my new apartment downtown and I was single. My buddy Brandon calls me up one night. A pit bull is the best definition I can give of this guy. He’s short and jacked! He smokes so much that he’s always short of breath and breaths very heavily. He can be vulgar when he wants to be and always treats women like absolute garbage. He goes on to tell me that he nailed 16 different girls in the last month and over 300 girls in his life! What I couldn’t figure out were the things that he would say to these girls to get them back to his house and into bed with him. It was just a bunch of stupid crap. One pickup line was a joke he heard from a movie. “What has two thumbs and likes blow jobs?” As he points to himself with his two thumbs, “This guy right here!”
Then he tells me it doesn’t even matter what you say. The only thing that was important was that you made the girl laugh and gave them some excuse to come back to your place. I said he should write a book and call it “101 Ways To Get A Woman To Come Home With You On the First Date!” He said that was a great idea and many people told him he should write a book on how to pick up girls. But I’m not going to hold my breath waiting.
One pickup line he told a girl was that he raised abandoned puppies. The girl of course was turned to mush and he convinced her to come back to his place to see them. Of course when they got back to his place there were no puppies, but at that point it didn’t matter. He had her in his bed faster than she could say blow job.
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It was at this point I really started to question what the hell was going on with women. Why can some guys turn women on to the point where their panties fly off like they were on fire? And why are there successful, good looking guys getting no sex from women at all? What are these guys doing? I know for a fact Brandon doesn’t fit the typical profile of what women say they want—tall, dark, handsome, established, blah, blah, blah. But there is one character trait Brandon has, that for some reason, women can’t resist… He’s a bad ass! What is it with women and bad asses?
My Google search started with “pickup lines”. I couldn’t believe the number of information products I found designed to help men communicate better with women. Eventually I bought one. The first product I bought was alright, but the guy didn’t explain why he was doing some of the things he was doing. He was just doing it because he knew it worked. I tried some of his tactics but only some worked and others bombed badly. I knew I still didn’t have the whole picture. Regardless, I was still gaining more confidence just because I had a few guidelines to follow.
One day I get an email from this guy about a professional dating coach he knows. This guy started talking about stuff that really made sense to me. Simple stuff any guy can do, like placing your body in certain positions and reading a woman’s eye queues to know how she’s feeling about topics you’re discussing.
I just applied a few of this guys techniques and my sex life with women went to another level. I started becoming more confident with women and it started getting easier to make women attracted to me. Did you get that? You can literally MAKE women more attracted to you. I just applied a few simple strategies I had learned.
My state of mind changed, to what he called, the “abundance state of mind. My whole attitude and mind set towards women started to change. But more importantly, what I believed changed, and this changed everything. Today I have numerous relationships with women. Today my relationships with women aren’t anywhere close to how they use to be.
You can turn your situation around with women. You don’t need money. You don’t need rippling muscles. You don’t need to be the best looking guy in the world. It doesn’t even matter if you have a job or not. Take it from me. I’m broke, don’t even have a job and drive an old beat up mini-van. But I still have a different woman for every night of the week.
What material objects you posses isn’t as important as most men think they are when it comes to being successful at attracting and seducing beautiful women. The same goes for Brandon. Neither of us is established and we’re almost 40! This is what confidence, and not acting like a wuss, can do for a man. Women are craving alpha type men in today’s society. The woman’s rights movement that has been going on for the last few decades has royally screwed the dynamics between men and women, but that’s another story all together.
Women find men that constantly talk about all their “stuff” and success boring. A woman’s imagination is the most erotic part of her being. If you want to get her interested in you have to get her imagination going. That’s what my buddy Brandon did with his ridiculous stories and jokes. He found the secret trigger that most men don’t even know women have. Women want to be seduced, not sexualized. And her imagination is the key to seducing her.
My study of women’s minds started turning more of my dating experiences into sexual experiences more frequently. A few months ago I took this 27 year old cutie I met online out on a date. I tested out a couple of strategies I had learned. Just some body language moves and a “feels” like a multiple dates trick. Before I know it I’m at her place in bed with her. As she’s taking off her panties with a guilty look in her eyes she says “You know… You really shouldn’t have sex on the first date.” Then her panties land on the floor!
That was a pivotal moment for me because I was finally gaining control of my relationships with women. Not everyone can understand why a moment like that would mean so much to me. A moment like that means more than just having sex with a young and beautiful 27 year old girl that I just met a few hours ago. It showed me that I could get what I want when I put my mind to it—which is also another trait women find attractive in men by the way.
For most of my life women were never attracted to me. When I was young there was this one girl I always wanted, but I just couldn’t get out of the friend zone with her. We hadn’t seen each other in years and she found my profile on an online dating website. She asked me over to her place to hangout and have a drink, but she still wasn’t into me.
About three years later she finds out that I’m friends with one of her female acquaintances that just so happens to like me. And if there is one thing experience has taught me about women is that they can’t resist a man other women are attracted to.
By this time I was reading all kinds of guides on how to seduce and turn on women. And this time when we got together things went according to plan. Understanding a woman’s mind can get you out of the friend zone with her. Even if you’ve known her for years and she’s never been interested in you before.
So do you still think some guys get all the luck? Let the truth be told, it takes more than luck to get lucky with women. There’s a method to the female mind of madness. Once you understand this your relationships with women will catapult to the next level.
Getting my relationships with women under control has helped me eliminate the personal internal problems I use to deal with. It has improved my confidence, my happiness, and even my relationships with family and friends. So, if you’re not happy with your “woman situation”, then do something about it! So do something about it today! Women will love you for it!
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